Surviving infidelity can feel like surviving an emotional train wreck. Experiencing the ill fated effects of broken trust is extremely devastating. Professionals will admit there are several approaches one must face in dealing with infidelity. Establishing trust again in the relationship is only one. But how does a spouse achieve such a character defect that has clearly been exposed by cheating? When a spouse cheats, and gets caught, they must commit to vulnerability a the maximum level. This is never a simple task. Reconciliation is only achieved through vulnerable love.